From Recognition to Expression
Accompaniment to make your life evidence of your understanding
A personal message to my retreat family 🫂
Dear fellow travelers,
As some of you know I am a Certified High Performance Coach.
BUT...
After our retreats with Rupert, I realized something profound: I'm not really a "high performance coach" in the traditional sense (and that is the reason for this letter).
A year ago, when we were at The Vedanta for our first retreat (me and my wife Maggie), we were surprised because everyone commented on how special it was to be there together as a couple.
It felt natural for us: that's how we learned the teaching, that's how we lived.
That's when I realized I had something different to offer...
During a conversation with Rupert at Mandali, it became clear: I am what he calls an Outward Facing Path Coach.
I work with people who've already made the journey back home and now seek how to express that understanding in daily life. The challenge we all face: when we return from retreat, 95% of people we meet don't share this recognition.
How do we make our lives real evidence of this understanding?
This question resonates deeply because I lived it firsthand. I have the fortune of sharing my life with someone who also has this understanding, which allows me to polish these tools daily.
That's why I have a gift 🎁 for you today...
The question we ask ourselves after retreat
You return home from a Rupert retreat. Your mind is quiet, your heart open. For the first time in a long while, everything makes sense.
But (and its a BIG BUT) within days, you find yourself back in "the Matrix."
In work meetings where no one speaks from this place.
In family conversations that feel superficial.
In a world apparently operating from separation.
And that's where the question that led me to create this space appears:
How do I make my life real evidence of this understanding?
You're not the only one living this tension
If you've made it here, it's because you've probably already:
✓ Recognized that you are not a separate being
✓ Experienced the unlimited nature of your own being
✓ Understood that searching "outside" was never going to complete you
✓ Realized that happiness is not found in the objects of experience
But it's also very likely that:
⚡ You feel kind of lonely with this understanding in your daily life
⚡ You don't know how to apply it in concrete situations
⚡ You get frustrated when your family/work doesn't "get it" (as if there was something to get 😂)
⚡ You doubt whether you've really integrated what you recognized
Why traditional coaches don't work for us
Most coaches work from the premise that "you are a separate being who needs to improve something."
They'll talk to you about goals, mindset, manifesting, getting out of your comfort zone.
But you already know there's nothing to improve.
You've already recognized that there's no separate "I" that needs to fix something.
What you need is someone who shares that same understanding, that is walking the same Path as you are and that has a tool box full of questions to help you express it in your daily life 🗝️
The Outward Facing Path
Rupert speaks of two paths:
- The inward path: recognizing the nature of your own being
- The Outward Facing Path: expressing that recognition in daily life
If you're reading this, you've already traveled the first.
Now (maybe) you need a travel companion for the second.
My story
As I mentioned, I'm a Certified High Performance Coach (CHPC) from Brendon Burchard's High Performance Institute, a methodology based on more than 100 scientifically analyzed human performance variables and validated with over 174,000 coaching sessions in 46 countries, with an average client satisfaction of 9.6/10 - the highest recorded for any multi-month coaching program.
But after two retreats with Rupert I realized something: I'm not really a "high performance coach" in the traditional sense.
As I told Rupert recently at Mandali: I'm an Outward Facing Path Coach ❤️
I am starting to work exclusively with people who have already made the journey of recognition and are now seeking how to live from that place in a world that mostly operates from separation.
The advantage I have is that:
- I (do my best to) live this understanding in my daily life
- I share life with someone who also lives it (my partner, Maggie) - something others pointed out to us as extraordinary at our first retreat in Vedanta, but which was natural for us
- I have scientifically validated tools from high performance coaching applied from this non-dual paradigm
- I understand the tension of living "in the world but not of the world"
How we work together
This isn't traditional coaching. It's accompaniment between equals who share the same fundamental understanding.
In our sessions we'll explore:
🔹 How to make decisions from recognition (work, relationships, money)
🔹 How to relate with people who operate from separation
🔹 How to handle situations where "the world" challenges you
🔹 How to create a life that is authentic expression of your nature
🔹 How to integrate this understanding into your work and relationships
We're not going to "work on your mindset" or "manifest abundance."
Oh god please no...
We're going to polish the expression of what you already recognized you are.
Who this is for
This is for you if:
✓ You've already attended non-duality retreats
✓ You have clarity about your essential nature
✓ You want your life to reflect that understanding
✓ You feel alone with this comprehension in your environment
✓ You already tried to find happiness "outside" and it didn't work
This is NOT for you if:
❌ You're still looking for techniques to "improve your life"
❌ You believe there's something to "fix" in you
❌ You expect me to give you magic formulas
❌ You don't have clarity about what non-dual understanding is
My gift to you
If you resonate with everything I wrote above, I'd like to give you the first 4 sessions of my one-year program for free 🎁.
Why free?
Because we are friends, I love you and I know that being there for you is being there for me ❤️
The next step
If something you read resonated deeply, the next step is to fill out the application form below.
This form is a way for you to tell me a bit about your story and for me to feel if there's alignment to work together.
I don't want to waste your time, the form is to see if I really feel I can accompany you today.
I'm only going to accompany a few people in this first round, because I want to give my full attention to each process.
PS: If you made it this far but still have doubts, it's probably not the time. And that's perfect. Everything has its time.
With love,
Exe.
